#18 - Drifting and Anchoring in the Waters of Faith


Have you ever felt like something was off in your walk with God, but you didn’t know why? Maybe you stopped praying, lost interest in reading the Bible, or felt far from God without meaning to.
In this episode, Dr. Cory Potter talks about what it means to drift away from God and how to find your way back. You’ll learn what the Bible says about drifting, how to notice the signs early, and how to ask honest questions to check in with yourself and others. We also talk about how to anchor your faith in Jesus again so you can feel steady and close to Him, even when life feels messy.
Whether you feel strong in your walk with God or a little lost, this is a helpful episode to remind you that Jesus is always ready to welcome you back and keep you grounded.
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I grew up watching Gilligan's Island, and I think
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of the theme song a few times a year, and it
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gets stuck in my head. And there's a line in
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the song that says, the weather started getting
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rough, the tiny ship was tossed. If not for the
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courage of the fearless crew, the minnow would
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be lost. Beyond being catchy, this line contains
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truth. for our lives and you're probably singing
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it now and I don't blame you. Life's challenges
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or storms can definitely throw us off course
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from where we expected we were going and it takes
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courage sometimes to just survive and not get
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lost in the storm. Today I want to talk about
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something a bit less dramatic than the storms
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of life but equally dangerous. drifting away
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from God without even realizing it. Picture this.
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Have you ever been on a boat or a raft or even
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a kayak, because I love kayaking, and you look
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up and suddenly you realize how far you've drifted
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from the shore. You didn't mean to. You weren't
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trying to get lost or lose your bearings. But
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the combination of the waves, the wind, and even
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just sitting still too long all work together
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to slowly move you away from where you started.
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That really is what spiritual drift feels like.
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You look up one day and realize prayer feels
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distant. The Bible isn't in your clear view anymore
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and God seems far off. We realize that we aren't
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even thinking about how we can respond to God
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in faith because we're too busy with life itself.
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But it's not God who's moved, we have. And that's
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what we're talking about today. And I want to
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remind you that our spiritual lives are not separate
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from our mental, emotional, or physical health.
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When we drift spiritually, everything else can
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feel off. Welcome back to Mind of Faith Matters.
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I'm the host, Dr. Cory Potter, and today's episode
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is about how to recognize that drift in our spiritual
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lives, how to do a self -check, how to encourage
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others in their faith journey, and how to anchor
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yourself, again, in truth and grace. And if you've
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been listening to the podcast, first, thank you.
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But second, I want to let you know that this
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builds On our previous conversations about why
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it's difficult to be still before God in episode
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7, and the practice of being still before God
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in episode 8, and those episodes explored what
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it meant to practice this stillness in the presence
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of God. And today we're asking, what happens
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when we stop even doing that? So the first question,
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how do we know we're drifting spiritually? And
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it is challenging because you might not recognize
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it right away. You might feel off just in general.
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And a lot of things in our lives can make us
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feel off. Our relationships, our jobs, our stress,
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our finances. So it gets lost sometimes. But
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when you're drifting spiritually, maybe you've
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pulled away from those godly influences in your
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life. Like the people in your church or your
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group maybe you're too tired to pray or you're
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just not interested in it or maybe you feel shame
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and you're not even sure why you just have this
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sense of guilt and shame you know you can ask
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yourself some questions and we're going to talk
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about them later but when we live with that spiritual
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disconnection for too long our bodies start to
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carry it It's like our bodies feel restless and
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uneasy. And like I say, it can be the grind of
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life, but other times it's the absence of peace
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that only comes from being close to Jesus. And
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this inner spiritual weariness or uneasiness
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in our spirit can show up as a loss of joy, a
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lack of motivation. Maybe it's even a sense of
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disconnection from yourself or others. I've seen
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it where it becomes distrust in the intentions
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of those around us or like an emotional distance
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that we go through and even anger for some. People
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can get angry in response to things that happen
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to them quicker but maybe it's just this anger
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about their situation and in some cases it really
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can be a blaming of God. So what does the Bible
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say about this drifting away? Hebrews chapter
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2 verse 1 gives us a strong warning It says we
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must pay the most careful attention Therefore
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to what we have heard so that we do not drift
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away And I think about this in my kayaking life
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because I do love to kayak and I think of this
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warning About drifting away in our spiritual
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lives But you really do have to be careful and
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pay attention to where you're at on a lake or
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a body of water because there are bigger vessels,
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bigger boats out there that can steam you over
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or you can get caught up in the shoreline bushes
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or on rocks. I was so excited one day that we
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were going to get to go in this lake and kayak
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up the river and this series of channels and
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it was miles of kayaking but there was a barrier
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there because of this deep waterfall so The lake
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was way higher than the actual river and I couldn't
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go the whole distance. But the point of it is
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you have to pay the most careful attention to
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where you're at or things can happen. And drifting
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happens on a body of water just like it does
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spiritually. It happens quietly and subtly, often
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by not taking action. You don't have to rebel
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to drift. You just have to stop paying attention.
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Pastor Jim Soul once said, All you have to do
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to become a lukewarm, worldly, spiritually indifferent
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Christian is nothing. That hits hard because
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it's true. Spiritual drift often begins with
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neglect, not defiance. But we have to understand
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we have a very real spiritual enemy. And the
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devil isn't always trying to shock us and rock
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us. Sometimes he's content to distract us. to
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lull us into spiritual sleep. Scripture says
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he's crafty and spiritual inactivity is one of
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his most effective tools. Satan is pleased when
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we stop making the effort to draw near to God.
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2 Corinthians chapter 2 verses 9 through 11 is
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where Paul explains that he's just going to conduct
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himself in the sight of Jesus and do the things
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that he knows that Jesus wants him to do. such
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as forgiving each other. He gives the reason
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so Satan might not outwit us. Paul writes it
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like this, For we are not unaware of his schemes.
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I know that scripturally, there are many warnings
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about staying on the right path and allowing
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God to help us and illuminate the path so that
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we don't get off track on our journey. But having
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this enemy against us can make some feel hopeless.
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Like, why bother? Well, I'm going to tell you,
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there's a reason why we should bother. We're
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not left without hope. Hebrews chapter 6 verse
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19 reminds us that we have this hope it's God's
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promises and his unchanging nature as an anchor
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for the soul. It's firm and secure. It means
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we have Jesus as the anchor we can return to
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to stop drifting because just like in the waters
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when I'm kayaking if I want to stay still and
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not take any action I'm going to drift. But the
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action that I need to take is to anchor myself
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where I'm at in order to not drift. And that's
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Jesus! In the Message Bible, Hebrews 6 verses
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19 through 20 is described like this, reaching
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past all appearances right to the very presence
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of God where Jesus running on ahead of us has
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taken up his permanent post as high priest for
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us. I love this imagery here. There's a weight
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we carry when we're not walking closely with
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God, but we have the answer. But I don't mean
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there's a weight we carry that's a religious
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check -the -box kind of way. I mean, the kind
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of disconnect where the prayer feels distant,
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the Bible feels dry, and you're not sure if God
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is even interested in what you're going through.
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You know, sometimes to talk about mental health,
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it feels the same and it gives us this anxiety,
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this irritability, and even depression can have
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spiritual roots. I'm not saying that all of it
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does. But certainly, we need to do this spiritual
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check when we're feeling certain kind of ways.
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As Christians, David describes what happens to
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him when he had unconfessed sin in Psalm 32.
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And I'm not reading it, but I'm saying that David
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mentions things like when I kept silent about
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his sin, my bones wasted away through my groaning
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all day long. And then he says his strength was
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sapped as if in the heat of summer. He was experiencing
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physical symptoms based on a spiritual problem
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of sin and the guilt that he had from that sin.
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Isaiah chapter 59 verse 2 tells us that your
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iniquities have separated you from God. But the
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good news is scripture doesn't stop there. The
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gospel always calls us back. So I want to talk
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about what we can do to help each other and really
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ourselves. I want to talk about this in light
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of spirituality and I'm going to talk about what
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the Bible says, but I want to get practical and
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walk us through a spiritual check -in. And I've
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gathered up some questions for men, for women,
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whether you're a Christian who feels solid or
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one who knows you've drifted. Here are some honest
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questions to use and they were designed to be
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used in a circle of trusted believers. I mean,
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you could use these as personal reflective questions
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as well. You might have to reword it, but let's
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start with men. The questions come directly from
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the Fight Club, which is an accountability framework
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that Passion City Church out of Atlanta, Georgia
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put in place. And in their Fight Clubs, which
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are just small groups of three to five men that
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get together and talk on a regular basis, the
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first question is, have you intentionally pursued
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Your relationship with God since we last met
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because if you haven't pursued a relationship
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with God as a believer It typically means that
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you've been pursuing something else With far
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less value to your spiritual life So that's a
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powerful first question next one Have you made
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it a priority to love and lead your family well
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since we last met? How about this have you looked
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at anything or been involved with anyone in a
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way that would compromise your purity since we
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last met? Next, have you been honorable and lived
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with a sense of mission, leveraging your life
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for others since we last met? To me that means,
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are you doing the things that God asked you to
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do and living sacrificially accountability matters
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in the sense that it's hard to ask yourself that
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question because either you've really convinced
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yourself that you have been honest and you're
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not doing anything wrong or you're not aware
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or you are aware and you're already feeling guilty
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so with other men it becomes oh wow I'm bringing
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this to the light I'm bringing this out of the
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darkness into the light so we can discuss it
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and then these questions really are not about
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performance they really about being honest accountability
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to others is wise and can bring you back to your
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anchor as I've said Jesus when you've drifted
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and notice that these questions work best when
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it's done on a regular basis you know consistently
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so it says since we've last met in some of the
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questions which means you are regularly meeting
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with these people. So now let's talk about for
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women. Let's go through some reflective questions
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from a framework that it's used by women in the
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Community of Faith Church. I found this online,
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by the way. First question, how has your personal
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time with God been this week? Have you encountered
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temptations or sin struggles? Is there anyone
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you need to reconcile with or forgive? How can
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your sisters pray for you this week? Have you
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spoken truth to yourself or have fear, shame,
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or comparison been louder? Women, I want to say
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just like men, your worth isn't defined by what
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you do or how well you hold it all together.
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These questions help you to be real with God
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and with others, staying anchored to your hope
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in Jesus. And these questions aren't really gender
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specific. They were just from resources that
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worded them for men and women. So you could do
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the comparison thing and you could ask all the
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questions. And how do you get them? You could
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go to the companion resource guide for episode
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18 on my website for the podcast mindandfaithmatters
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.com and just simply Save it or print them out?
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Here's some bonus questions. What lie have you
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believed about yourself or about God this week?
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It's very similar to have you spoken truth to
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yourself. Next, are you walking in freedom or
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are you trying to earn what's already yours in
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Christ? I'm gonna say it like this. Are you walking
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in freedom? Or are you walking in sin? Are you
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shutting God out or are you letting Him in? That's
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the mindset that I have. Is there anyone who
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truly knows how you're doing spiritually, emotionally,
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and relationally? You could take the cop -out
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answer and say, well, yeah, God knows. But I'm
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talking about accountability. And really, have
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you been sharing? We were never meant to follow
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Jesus alone. And these questions help us really
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with truth and then how to live in freedom that
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this truth brings. You know, that's how it works.
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So what should you do when you realize you've
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drifted due to sin? And I want to challenge you
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here, and I know it's going to sound somewhat
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like a sermon, but failing to do something that
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you can and ought to do is considered sin. A
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lot of times it's referred to as the sin of omission.
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Like not praying Not worshiping not studying
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scripture not helping others Not being honest.
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There's so many Things it's not I've told a lie
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it's I've Withheld some truth. I didn't do it.
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I didn't say the truth James 417 in the New International
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Version says it clearly if anyone then knows
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the good they ought to do and Doesn't do it It
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is sin for them. So if any of these questions
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and reflection hits home, or even close to home,
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don't run from it. It might just be the Holy
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Spirit drawing you in. And the next thing you
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need to do is confess. Because 1 John chapter
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1 verse 9 says, Confession leads to cleansing,
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not shame, not punishment. Cleansing. And James
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4 .8 says, draw near to God and he will draw
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near to you. You know, he's not playing hide
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and seek with you. He's already near. You just
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have to turn toward him again. Get your vessel,
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whatever it is, your spiritual vessel, out of
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that drift and back to him. And practically speaking,
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Don't keep this to yourself. Find someone you
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can trust, a friend, a mentor, a small group,
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and do for them what we've talked about doing
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for yourself. Ask how they're really doing. Use
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some of these check -in questions and start a
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regular schedule of mutual encouragement and
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accountability. Don't isolate. I'm not trying
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to simply make sure my listeners are self -aware.
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I want you and I want us to keep building one
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another up. in Christ and anchoring ourselves
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to Him. Let me leave you with this encouragement.
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If your soul feels off, it may be because you've
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drifted slowly, quietly, over time. But spiritual
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drift doesn't have to lead us to spiritual defeat.
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You can come back. You can reconnect. These spiritual
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check -ins aren't meant to guilt trip you. They're
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meant to ground you. They help us name what's
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going on beneath the surface so we can bring
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it into the light, as I've said. So we can walk
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in freedom. You don't have to fix yourself. You
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just have to come home. And if you need help,
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don't wait. Reach out. Confess. Reconnect. Jesus
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isn't surprised by your struggle. He's just waiting
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to meet you in it. I want to thank you for joining
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me today. And I want you to remember that we
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recently launched a small merchandise line on
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our website to help support the podcast. And
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for the entire month of July, 100 % of proceeds
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from every purchase of these really cool mugs,
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hats, shirts, will go straight to Heads Up Guys
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to helping men fight depression and prioritize
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their mental wellness. And that's been my focus
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for July. I didn't want to leave the women out
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so I had to speak this week to everyone. So I
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to thank you for all those who've already purchased
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shirts and mugs. It's much appreciated and I'm
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excited to be able to donate something to this
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organization. I'll see you next time on Mind
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and Faith Matters. And until then, I want you
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to think about how you can stop drifting and
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get back to that anchor in Jesus. God bless and
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have a great week.